Monday, June 12, 2017

My Sunday Best #12: C'est la vie!

Yesterday, our oldest son, Holden, turned 21 years old. Also, Mary Rose hit her 8-month mark. This morning I am drinking my coffee out of a mug that says "C'est la vie." I bought the mug a couple of months ago, and it instantly became my favorite. Not only because it holds 16 ounces of hot, delicious goodness, but because it sums up how I feel about my life. Not in the negative way that the phrase is often used to acknowledge a disappointment. No, my mug is lovely, covered in flowers and swirly script. It proclaims "That's life" in a boldly beautiful way!

On Saturday a family member cackled, "Tomorrow your oldest turns 21, and your youngest isn't even one year old yet! That's crazy!" I smiled and replied, "It's not crazy. It's my life." I thank God for it, and for all the people, big and small that He has placed in my life. What a blessing it has been to sit and talk to my son, the man, about college classes and work schedules, while holding a wiggly baby on my lap. I know it looks undesirable to other people, but to me, it feels like perfection, a gift. Yes, life is a beautiful gift.  


I am wearing a Lularoe Carly.


My life isn't perfect. There have been days, weeks, and months that have been hard, with moments of sadness and feelings of loneliness and uncertainty. But those times seem so short compared to the years that have been full to bursting with happiness. 

This is the life. My beautiful life. And I thank God for it!

Please, check out more Sunday attire over at Rosie's blog. In case you missed my update about finally getting some sleep you can read that here.

Wednesday, June 7, 2017

Feeling Chatty: Sleep Habits, Stretching, and Shoes

Here at the Saint household we are all slowly getting better from a spring cold. I think colds in the springtime are the cruelest because they keep us from being outside and enjoying the company of our friends and family. Over the last week, we had to miss making mulberry jam with friends, a nephew's graduation party, and Mass. Needless to say, we have had disappointed spirits around here in combination with runny noses, coughs, sore throats, and headaches.

Since we were too sick to go to Mass, I can't join Rosie and the gang for My Sunday Best, which stinks because I am feeling chatty. Then I remembered an idea that I had a few weeks ago about creating a recurrent post with tidbits of information about what's new in our life and the things that are keeping us busy.

Well, you may be thinking that is why a link-up like Seven Quick Takes is a good idea. Of course, you are correct in thinking that, except I hardly ever have seven things to write about regularly. Plus there is the added commitment of trying to get the takes done between Friday and Sunday because if I haven't finished my takes by Sunday, then I always tell myself to just wait until next Friday. Then I forget, or I start to work on them but get sidetracked, and before I realize it, it's Monday again (rinse, repeat).

Or I could always type up a Daybook style post, but I have a similar mindset with the Daybook posts. I feel like they are supposed to kick off the week, so then I am held to posting on Monday, which is a deadline that I miss all the time, too. Honestly, if I post on a Monday, I prefer to type up a My Sunday Best post because I like the company of women that regularly participate in that link-up.

My point is that I decided that a recurrent but unscheduled post about whatever has me feeling chatty is what will work best for me here in this space. I like blogging. I like to be free to discuss what I want when I want. Plus, I just renewed my domain name, so sporadic, imperfect blogging is on the menu for at least two more years!



Thank you to all that responded to my cry for help! Truly, you blessed me with your suggestions and commiserations here and over at Instagram. There were several book suggestions. After reading the reviews, I decided to buy Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child because it appeared to be the most comprehensive book on children's sleep habits. It arrived on Thursday, and by Saturday I started implementing the author's suggestions. Since we were under the weather and stuck at home, I figured it would be the best time to start. The author said it would take four to nine days of twenty-four-hour sleep training to break the old habits and build new ones depending on which method I decided to use. He offers several methods that range from crying it out, modified cry it out, to no cry. I am happy to report that it has been, dare I say, easy to get her on a new schedule. Yesterday, she took two daytime naps, one for 90 minutes in the late morning and one for two hours in the early afternoon. Last night, she went to bed at 7:00 pm, woke for feedings at midnight and again at 5:00 am. She is currently still asleep (it is 6:30 am Tuesday morning). All daytime napping, night sleeping, and night feedings have taken place in her room. I am rested and refreshed as I sit here sipping my coffee. The best part is that she is a happy baby during her awake periods. She is content to sit and play on the floor or play in her exercise thing for extended periods of time. I wasn't the only one feeling old and tired. I know now that she was sleep deprived, too. I wholeheartedly recommend this book! *

Since I am not feeling tired anymore, the question begs to be asked do I still feel old? The answer is no. I may be 41 years old, but I am active and healthy. Plus, I have a baby. Old people can't physically have babies, so nope, not feeling old. One thing that I try to do daily to help ease any aches and pains that my middle-aged, mom body may be feeling (stiff lower back, achy hips, and tired feet) are flowing stretches called Essentrics. My mother has done them every day for about two years. She loves how they make her feel. She gifted me several of the workouts, including the one for pregnancy, and I now love them, too. Check out the website for more information, and a good amount of mini workout videos. A tip to help you, watch the instructional video about the Neutral C. The best part is that as long as you are wearing comfortable clothes and have 5 to 10 minutes, that is all you need to benefit from the workouts. If you have more free time, like 15 to 20 minutes, then you can complete a full workout. You may need a chair if you want to work on your lower body, but you don't need shoes!

Speaking of shoes, look at those huge shoes in the picture above! Since the third trimester of my pregnancy, I have had to wear size 11 shoes. Ugh! It is very hard to find women's shoes in size 11. So far, I have purchased two pairs of running shoes from Amazon and a pair of black flats from Target. My summer shoes still work because they are all open toe, but if my feet stay a size 11, I will need to replace my winter shoes in the fall. What is your favorite place to buy shoes online?

Well, this is way longer than I planned. I told you that I was feeling chatty. Until next time, friends!

*It took me two days to finish this post. I wanted to add that things are still going well. Last night she slept for 11 hours and woke up to nurse three times.

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